Wedding Website Etiquette: Registry, Plus-Ones, Children and Gifts

Some topics feel awkward to write, but a clear, kind note on your website prevents far more awkwardness later.

Registry and gifts

Keep it short and optional. For example: "Your presence is the greatest gift. If you would like to give something, we have a small wish list." Place it near the bottom of the page rather than at the top.

Plus-ones

Say it on the invitation and the website: "Your invitation lists everyone invited." Setting a maximum number of guests in the RSVP form makes it clear without confrontation.

Children

If your celebration is adults-only, say so warmly: "We love your little ones, but this will be an adults-only celebration." Offer helpful details, such as the nearest babysitting services for travelling families.

Photography and phones

Tell guests whether you want an unplugged ceremony, and where to share their photos afterwards.

Dress code

Be specific without sounding strict. Examples and a short description are better than just the words "formal" or "cocktail".

Social media

If you have a hashtag, put it on the page. If you would prefer no posting before the ceremony, say so kindly.

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